As a sugar baby you can choose from a number of arrangement types or a mix of them all. I would recommend looking for a mix that suits your requirements.

Im a real UK based sugar daddy and have had many arrangements myself and i’ll cover what has worked for me. I’ll also help you understand what’s realistic for most sugar daddies to pay and for sugar babies to receive, There are of course people worth so much money that the extreme cases of ridiculous monthly arrangements will apply but for most sugar daddies even they will have a budget on what they can spend on a sugar baby, Stories of £10k a month regular allowances are common to hear but extremely rare in reality.

Different types of Sugar Baby allowance and arrangements

• PPM – Pay Per Meet
• Monthly Arrangements
• Experiences
• Gifts
• Beauty Treatments
• Combination of them all

Pay Per Meet

I often find its easier to start on a pay per meet basis. Why? Well you both don’t know each other so to arrange a monthly allowance from the off is very strange indeed. You may not get on, may not click intimately and may just not be compatible. So starting off with a PPM arrangement with the goal to move to a monthly arrangement often works best. Also receiving a monthly allowance can then mean the sugar baby can’t be bothered to meet as she’s had her “sugar” already so the incentive for her to meet is often then gone.

Average “real” pay per meet amounts vary from £250 to £500 per meet. The average being £300. In London, a sugar baby may receive a higher amount than elsewhere in the country. This may sound cheap but take into consideration a proper sugar baby date may include a premium hotel, gifts, restaurant and travel expenses taking a single date over £1000 for the sugar daddy. If that sugar daddy has 2 meets a month that equates to £24K a year on 24 dates. That’s a disposable income of £29k before tax at the lower tax band rates.

Of course there are some high end companions charging £750 to £2k plus per date, however you should note these are not sugar babies they are usually high end companions and these dates are usually one offs and are repeated with many different men over the course of the year. So these companions have high body counts and increase their risks by seeing multiple men. They also are expected to have intimacy from the very first meet as its likely a one off meet so don’t confuse these companions with sugarbabies.

The main negative to ppm arrangements as they can be one offs and can lead to you having to search for multiple sugar daddies on a regular basis.

Monthly Arrangements

I like to transition to a monthly arrangement when I find my perfect sugar baby. Now I generally look to pay £1000 a month plus gifts and beauty treatments covered as well as travel covered on top.You may think £1k is cheap skating but its actually very generous. £12k a year extra income for my sugar baby. Beauty treatments may include hair, lip fillers / botox, lashes and brows etc As a woman you know what these can rack up too and this could be another £500 to £1000 a month on top of the base arrangement. Then gifts. I try and buy a couple a month and these can vary from a £100 to £unlimited. all of a sudden this makes the arrangement worth upwards of £2500 to the sugar baby. That’s a £30k arrangement after tax to the sugar baby from the sugar daddy. Now add on experiences like trips away, high quality hotels and fine dining on top alongside drinks and travel then you have a really good arrangement in place. If you can negotiate this as a sugar baby you’ve done really well.

Obviously you have to look at what you want from the arrangement as a sugar baby. Would £1k extra a month plus your beauty expenses and gifts make a difference to you? You may want to increase the base amount or have an inclusive amount. Say £2k but no gifts and beauty treatments, instead you cover these from that allowance.

£3k plus allowances per month are extremely rare. I was once asked by someone for £8k per month. We’d never met and the girl was new to sugar dating. I pointed out she was asking for £8k x 12 months which is £96k after tax per year! To have a disposable income of £96k that you’d spend on one girl per year is totally unrealistic and you’ll find it nigh on impossible to find and then consider what are you offering in return for such a figure?

Experiences, Gifts and Beauty Treatments.

Ive had sugar babies who didn’t want any money part at all and were more focused on experiences such as fine dining and nights out or weekends away. The money part just wasn’t of interest. You may decide you are a handbag aficionado and may prefer a handbag a month in return for your company or perhaps a high end dress or shoes. You may enjoy travelling and are looking for a travel sugar daddy who will pay for trips away alongside the expenses of that trip in return for your company or you may have an expensive beauty regime and prefer that to be paid for.

Alternative Types of Arrangements

You could also consider other types of arrangements such as having your bills paid such as rent or mortgage. Some people dont like the transactional types of arrangements so perhaps the sugar daddy could set up a direct debit or standing order directly to your bill company.

Conclusion

In the end it’s up to what works for you both. Honesty is key on both parts. There are sugar daddies promising the world but don’t have the real financial means to meet these. You are better off with a sugar daddy who can meet a realistic commitment on a regular basis than one off ppm meets with dreamers.

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Sugar Baby Allowance Guide